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愛情在香港轉機

每次起飛 為何沒有心機
跟我夢想游離 忘掉下一站 是哪地
到降落 才終於記得比 數天前 接近你
然後再安心上機
這次起飛 就如望見天機
看著移動天地 証實較想像 更想你
一過關 如移近了幾里
為過份 掛念你 連沿路提示也歡喜

這轉機 才明白再寂寞
才明白上又落 為誰樂於工作
降落在繁華海港
彷彿腳踏到你角落分享收穫
高低遠近仍望到快樂
離別是個序幕
重逢為了捕穫 被懷念的感覺
愛令地球儀閃光
撫摸某座城市你在欣賞音樂
縮短天涯移近海角


過了海關 熱情又過一關
分隔聚首循環 情份被考驗 亦有賺
最為難 從起點裡出發 那心情
會為你 忘掉細賞海與山
在這港灣 像游近你心間
距離原是虛幻 赤鱲角風高 卻不冷
咫尺間 隨時像碰到你
站過站 太習慣 讓甜蜜能越過海關

Eden Lake


Nursery teacher Jenny and her boyfriend Steve escape for a romantic weekend at an idyllic remote lake. They meet a young boy along the wy who is reluctant to talk to them. When they arrive at beach they attempt to have a relaxing day, but a group of delinquents and their dog appear. Steve stubbornly decides that he would much rather stay put, enduring their loud music and obnoxious dog, than be "bullied" by them into leaving. They stay overnight in a tent, and in the morning discover that their food has been infested with insects. Hungry, they return to the car to find someplace to eat, but unfortunately, they run over an empty bottle the hooligans left behind. Steve luckily manages to fix the tyre, and they set off for the town. While in town, Steve sees the unruly teens riding around on their bicycles, and angrily follows them. Unable to keep track of them, Steve finally gives up, and they go looking for some breakfast. In they diner they settle for, Steve asks the waitress if she has seen the kids riding around on bikes. The waitress jokingly asks if they have been terrorising Steve and Jenny. Steve laughs, and states they have only been "hassling" them, and continues by saying that he wanted to inform their parents they had punctured his tyre. The waitress then becomes strangely defensive, saying 'Not my kids'.

When they leave, though, he catches sight of a group of bikes sprawled out on the front lawn of a house, and stops the car. Jenny pleads for him to stay, but Steve determinedly gets out. Receiving no answer to his calls, Steve enters the house, but almost gets caught by the owner - the father of one of the teenagers - who returns. Steve manages narrowly to escape out of the window, and he and Jenny hastily head back to the lake.

Once back, Steve goes scuba diving whilst Jenny sleeps on the beach, but when Steve returns they realize the beach bag, containing the car keys and Steve's phone and wallet, has gone missing. Hurriedly, they go to check on the car, and much to their dismay, see that it is gone. Making their way back to town on foot, they narrowly avoid being hit by the car as the gang drives it wildly through the woods, stopping only for Brett - the leader - to smirk at the couple.

Later, Steve and Jenny come across the gang in the woods. Steve, against Jenny's will, confronts them. He demands the car keys and his possessions back, but Brett denies any knowledge. Unfortunately for him, the phone goes off in his pocket, prompting a scuffle, during which one of the boys produces a knife. Steve manages to grab the knife, but in the confusion ends up stabbing - fatally - Brett's dog. Brett evidently saddened by his dog's death, throws the car keys to the floor and tells them to leave. Steve and Jenny manage to find the car and start driving away, but get stuck on a steep slope. Meanwhile, Brett has decided he wants retribution after all, and the gang catch up with them and start throwing rocks at the car, breaking the windshield and smashing the headlights. Terrified, Steve and Jenny luckily manage to get the car moving again, but with the headlights out, Steve ends up crashing the car. Finding himself trapped by a tree branch which has come through the windscreen, he tells Jenny to run and to try to find help. Jenny escapes and finds somewhere to hide, where she spends the night. The next morning she cautiously returns to the car but finds Steve gone. Following a trail of blood, she comes across the gang in a small clearing, with Steve tied up with barbed wire. She watches in horror as the boys - goaded by Brett - take turns torturing Steve with their knives as Paige, the girl of the gang, is told to record the whole thing on her phone. Jenny, realizing they are about to kill him uses the bluetooth on her GPS to connect with Steve's phone. Brett notices this, realizing she must be close and orders the gang after her.

Jenny flees, the gang close behind her on their bikes. This gives Steve the opportunity to free himself from the barbed wire, and he also sets off running. Jenny manages to evade the gang, and eventually finds Steve, injured and bleeding heavily. She helps him to a shack where she tries to treat some of his wounds. She finds a wedding ring in Steve's clothing and he tells her he'd planned to propose. The gang turns up and enter the shack but they find nothing as Jenny managed to conceal both herself and Steve underneath the construction in the water. The group leaves, and Jenny pulls Steve out of the water. They decide she should go on alone, leaving Steve concealed under some leaves. Following the power lines Jenny treads on a spike and hides, for fear her screams have alerted the gang to her location. She comes across Adam, the little boy she and Steve had encountered earlier. She pleads to him for help, but he instead leads her straight to the gang who knock her out.

She awakens to find herself and Steve, who has already died, about to be set alight by the gang. Pouring petrol over them, Brett forces Adam to light the fire with a match. Again Brett commands Paige to film the whole scene with her phone. The rest of the gang are noticeably disturbed at this point. The ropes binding Jenny burn through and she escapes. Brett, in his fury, covers Adam in petrol and threatens to set light to him if she does not return. Jenny though, is already too far away, and can only look on in horror as Adam is burnt alive.

Eventually she finds a trail map, which she removes to help her escape. Narrowly avoiding Brett and Ricky by hiding in a large bin, she arms herself with a shard of glass, but before she can go anywhere she encounters another of the gang; Cooper. Having evidently realized things have gone too far, Cooper seems as if he is about to offer her his help, but before he can do so, Jenny stabs him with the glass. Although the shock of what she has done immediately strikes her, she can do nothing but hold Cooper as he dies in her arms. Finding the body, Paige screams, bringing Brett running. Another member of the gang confronts him, and begins to call someone on his phone, prompting Brett to beat him savagely. Paige then runs off, terrified by Brett's seemingly uncontrollable brutality.

Meanwhile, Jenny finally reaches the road, managing to flag down a van, she gets in, telling the driver she has been attacked. Worried, the driver explains he is looking for his brother, who is also in the forest. His brother 'Ricky'. The driver stops the van and gets out, leaving the keys in the ignition. Jenny, scared that she will be caught again, resolves to steal the van, and speeds off towards town, running over Paige as she does so.

She makes it to town, only to crash into the front garden of a house. Making her way around the back of the house, she finds a party in progress, she pleads for help and collapses. Coming to, she finds herself inside the house, with a woman comforting her. As she looks around and listens to the phone call the parents received from their children, she comes to the realization that she is, in fact, in Brett's house and asks to be shown to the toiler. Brett's father at this point notices the van crashed on the lawn. Finding no escape, Jenny arms herself with a razor. As the commotion builds outside, the door is kicked in and she is confronted by Brett and his father, along with the other party-goers, some of them evidently the parents of the other gang members (including the waitress from the café). Brett's father orders Brett to his room violently as he and another parent push Jenny back into the bathroom. As the film closes, Brett deletes the videos from Paige's phone and looks into his mirror as Jenny's screams ring from downstairs.


My Tarot Session- 我被塔罗感动了

上星期六,我抱着好玩的心态去和一位来自台湾的塔罗牌老师见面
他叫勇行老师 属于流动式塔罗老师
只要和他预约好地点时间, 他都会准时赴约为你解开心里的烦恼, 疑问

星期六上午 我和老师约在时代广场的一家咖啡店见面。
刚开始的时候老师很友善的问了我的出生日期查询生命密码
老师开始摊开他的塔罗牌, 问了我今天有什么要跟他分享
并以友善的告诉我今天我们是以朋友的交流方式分享一切
我稍微感觉不会那么陌生的感觉 我稍微开始放下戒心 并说服自己以轻松的心情面对

起初, 老师利用心理学的方式询问我的心情状况
他拿出了‘国王’的牌 说这就是我的生命密码
之后拿出了另外一张为名 “过渡”的塔罗
老师问我, 在这两张牌看到了什么
我把我看见的, 连同我看见的感受让老师知道
老师很贴心的说如果看了觉得不舒服的话可以立刻停止进行。
我不太明白老师的意思,但是老师的塔罗牌图画让我觉得不会很恶心的感觉
所以我也没有那么多意见,让他继续解说

老师的塔罗牌解说不知使用塔罗进行
他也引用了心灵上的技巧让看塔罗的我觉得可以更加摊开心房引导我解决方案

起初老师让我把心里的疑问都跟他分享, 老实说我这还是我第一次的在陌生人面前说出自己concern的,烦恼的问题。
不过老师给我一种很亲切的感觉,让我觉得可以尝试适应这环境,情况下分享我的问题
老师很用心地听, 也好像朋友那样发出问题 我一点也不觉得很困扰的感觉

第一副牌是我目前的情况
老师让我自己洗牌,一边说出自己想知道的结果。
起初我并不太敢从老师手中拿牌 , 因为之前听说过很多塔罗进行的情况是绝对不让别人拿牌的。
然而老师的此举让我觉得信任
我开始洗牌,并心里说出我想知道的

打开牌,当老师解说时,说出了80%都是准确的状况
唯独剩下的20% 使我觉得老师对我的有所保留
老师太善良了,他对我说的都不会像网友说般过于一针见血
他对我的有所保留让我觉得他知道我自己心里都看得出的问题
老师唯一最准确的说 我身上有总使命感 是和他一样的 他开口问了我,你是不是有玩塔罗还是心理学之类的
我吓到了, 的确我是研究者儿童心理学的
可是我没想到这样也可以从塔罗中看出来的。
老师说 要我不只是面对儿童而已 成人心理学也不要逃避
确实,我一直在逃避着面对成人心理学,我觉得小孩之间的相处比成人好很多
成人的世界充满着太多我不知的问题 太复杂 困扰

其实,我内心某部分很担心 看了结果我的心情更矛盾
然而,老师的解说,还有安慰 让我在迷失的自我找到了大概要如何去交谈/解决我内心的问题
老师的鼓励对我来说有很大的帮助
或许我本身也是读心理学的,我感受得到老师对人心灵上帮助的那种热情和诚恳
我看见了迷失自我的自己多么惭愧。 曾经我也是和老师一样尽心尽力的帮助问题的孩子。
就是因为自己的问题,影响了我生活某部分的热情与使命
老师说 我的使命和他一样 都是帮助治疗别人心灵上的创伤
然而不同的是 我把应该客观面对和帮助别人的问题 变成自己主观的问题
这是我自己一直以来都没发现到的问题。
原来我自己真的没那么大资格去顾问别人
老师心理学的知识比我想象中深奥。
他说的话,让我感受到 其实目前我的问题也不是那么困扰
我比别人幸福很多 因为我尝试解决而不是钻牛角尖
某部分我还是觉得我自己在欺骗着自己
老师说中了我内心的问题,我到头来根本不是不想解决我的问题 只是我的懦弱在欺骗自己
我需要勇气面对,只要我面对我的问题就可以简单的解决。

到现在,我还是忘记不了老师刚开始说我内心感受的那种眼神
现在的我 不会担心在老师面前哭泣是多么羞耻的事情
就是因为有人尝试了解我帮助我 我才应该把伤心的泪水化成感动,开心的泪水

我已经决定继续研究我本身修读的心理学。
就如老师说的, 我和他一样 都有着帮助别人的使命。

我被小行老师的塔罗感动了
虽然目前的我也在于迷失中, 但是老师给予的元气给我很大的力量
让我觉得 我应该行动的
我应该做的 也应该解决的
问题在于时间
我答应自己答应老师绝对要在这段给自己的时间内 看清楚我自己想要的
我努力争取的 也要做一个值得自己光荣回顾的自己

人生的最大遗憾就是失去勇气与动力
然而 人生最大的光荣就是不会让自己后悔所得到,失去的一切

爱之魔鬼情人

情人和魔鬼之一线之隔
因为这两个人住在天平的两端
掌管人最极端的情绪

人生漫长
太长的平淡会让心跳停罢
可呼吸还留着
太长情的激情
就会跳在魔鬼和情人的火焰上

今日又一则艺人踩上极端的新闻
他的不知所措的反应
告诉我们情人的私藏是毒品
如果能保佑毒品而不被发现
答案是没有的
因为在high的时候
平凡的现实只是个屁

明知山有虎
可外人不知在这私有的心境有个很大的黑洞
他需要填补很多东西

比如
短暂的安慰
被爱的自信
美丽的童话
金钱的诱惑
爽快的背叛
久违的快感
期待的永远
真纯的绝望

这是逃亡者的个性
对人生不可知的探险


在此时变成一种实验
他让人打开一扇心灵之窗衡量之尺
看看人的耐性有多大
丑陋有多丑
温柔有几分
变化能过快
至于舆论
到最后只是射出精液
看用什么话来搽拭

一天五杯熱水, 完全排毒!

現在日本的藝能界流行一種“白湯”排毒法! 日文的“湯”就是熱水, 而“白湯”就是什麼都不加的熱水! 這種療法源自於,印度的阿育吠陀(Aayurveda)。藉由喝溫熱的水,讓身體熱起來;達到和用芝麻油按摩,讓身體熱起來同樣的效果! 由於實行起來非常簡單,每個人都做得到;也不用花錢、因此由藝人千葉麗子推薦之後,許多藝人紛紛仿效;成為一股風潮!

先說說喝熱水具備哪些效果吧
1.促進新陳代謝
喝熱水不僅能夠刺激腸胃蠕動,也能促進腎臟肝臟等器官的活動!維持擔任排毒重責大任,的器官的活性;讓血液能夠更輕鬆的,運輸氧氣與養分到全身;促進新陳代謝!
2.調整味覺
開始喝熱水,會感覺到溫水的甜味!慢慢的你會對於,食物的味道越來越敏銳! 稍微吃一點就會有吃了東西的實感,進而避免暴飲暴食!

3. 排出毒素
熱水能夠溫暖內臟器官,促進消化、讓囤積在體內的;毒素排出體外! 除了有利尿作用之外,因為體內水分的調節;更能夠改善便秘! 此外也能加速排汗, 達到良好的排毒效果!

4.賦予滿腹飽足感
和一般的水比起來, 喝熱水需要花時間;一口一口慢慢喝,因此更能夠獲得滿腹感! 在吃飯的時候,搭配食物一起喝; 更能夠增加飽足感!

5.幫助消化
經常暴飲暴食,會影響消化;並讓無法消化的食物,開始囤積在體內! 熱水可以刺激胃的蠕動,幫助消化、並幫助囤積的;老廢物質順勢排出!

6. 沉澱心情
除了身體機能的調整之外, 喝熱水也具有精神層面排毒的功效!慢慢的喝杯熱水,能夠緩衝一下;忙碌的工作消除壓力。
讓你神清氣爽!

根據阿育吠陀(Aayurveda)的說法, 影響人類身體與精神健康的元素可以從風、火、水三種元素來看! 頭痛, 肩頸酸痛, 失眠, 肌膚粗糙, 便秘等都是因為火的元素失調的關係,追究原因就是身體“太冷”! 夏天經常吹冷氣, 吃冰的東西, 內外夾攻, 這時候喝熱水就是一種均衡的消化劑!

雖然喝熱水排毒非常簡單, 但也不是隨便喝喝就能達到最好的效果喔! 在喝法上還是有些講究的:
1. 早上起床喝一杯熱水
早上起床喝一馬克杯的熱水, 水溫在不要燙口, 能夠順順喝下的溫度最好! 能夠溫熱內臟器官, 溶解體內的老廢物質, 加速排出! 讓一天有個神清氣爽的開始!

2. 一天喝1.2~1.5公升的熱水
任何東西過量都不好! 雖然喝熱水沒有副作用, 但是以為這樣而狂飲的話, 反而會造成多餘的水分在體內囤積, 新陳代謝惡化, 成為寒冷體質, 進而容易肥胖! 一天1.2~1.5公升的量最適中!

3. 一次一點點慢慢喝, 不要牛飲
不要在渴的時候咕嘟咕嘟狂飲, 最好是每次半杯小口小口慢慢喝! 1~2個小時喝一杯左右的量! 不要燙口的熱水, 溫熱就可以了!

4. 入浴後水分補給
洗完澡後, 喝一杯溫水(和體溫差不多的溫水), 補充流失的水分! 這時候好不容易藉由泡澡讓身體溫熱起來, 最好避免喝冰的東西, 讓身體冷卻!

經過日本許多明星的實踐證明: 熱水排毒法能夠提升基礎代謝, 讓身體覺得輕鬆舒暢, 改善便秘,排出老廢物質, 進而達到美肌與瘦身的效果! 這種不花錢的健康排毒法, 還不趕快試試?!

幸福是懂的原諒開始的...

世界上有好多好多用心付出愛情的人但得到的呢??
再多的難過、傷心、心痛卻無法擊倒這些付出愛的人!!
即使愛的人對自己傷了多大的心,他們總會安慰自己
下次他一定不會這樣對我的,所以再原諒他一次吧!!
還是很想好好掌握自己的幸福
卻寧願只求留在對方身邊,愛...真的好苦 好苦
某一天,我體悟到痛哭失聲是怎樣的,
當一個人看到自己最愛的男人(女人)公
擁著另一個女人(男人)從你面前走過時的那種心情
我想那是心最痛最痛的時候吧!!"
傷害一個愛你的人我想也是最痛苦的吧!!
我傷了一個愛我的人,痛苦的不只是他,我也不好?
明明知道他是那麼的對你好,卻忍的下心來傷害他
但不愛他不是應該立刻告訴他嗎?
長痛不如短痛不是嗎?即使被愛比愛人幸福
但他只不過失去一個不在乎他的
而我卻失去一個愛我的人,哪一個損失較大呢?
真愛的付出,是很容易,但要收回卻要花好多的時間,
愛情究竟是一個如何難懂的東西呀!!
凡是真正重要的東西..一定伴隨著痛苦免不了..
就好比獨自所感受的孤獨... 幸福是懂得原諒才開始的...
咖啡是一種容易上癮的飲料
感情是一種很難拒絕的嗎啡
一旦愛上就很難戒掉
在愛情的現實中
沒有誰是誰非 只有情深緣淺
細心可以讓感情長長久久
用心可以讓感情歷久彌新
交心可以讓感情溫暖光亮
真心可以讓感情喜悅充實
貼心可以讓感情甜甜蜜蜜